The issues we face are a result of a need to protect personal boundaries but then again what is the meaning of a relationship ,is it not two people coming together to forget their pasts and build a together with each other.
I believe that anyone that stays with the only conviction that” I love you but am not in love with you must be a mental case” for there is no collateral or any form of backing that the future would be better.
For me I wonder how we went from being inseparable to distant without even trying and I question time, looking to discover the trend.
It is too late to trade blame ot to fight for supremacy, the only thing worth fighting for now is dignity and self worth. I find my self more valuable than I am being valued.
I realise now that I must be really special to accommodate all that has happened and now I think its time I stood my ground and made a better person for myself.
You refuse to a member of my equation and I cannot blame you for you have all it takes to be your own man but I must be honest and say that I need a woman that would let me be her man.
I won’t compete with you or anyone for supremacy over the affairs of my life for I must say that my ways must now reflect the man that I wish to be.
Compromise is a two way thing not one, and so is communication!!
I refuse to be left without explanation with a phrase “forget it!” Like am some uneducated underling!
I refuse to be told when to or when not to speak based on mood or statements like “I don’t feel like” or “I am irritated”
I am baffled by this all and am sure it leaves the imagination with little or no work more to decipher the meanings of such statements.
This must be poetic justice and freedom of speech for it comes straight from my heart out to you!