“If something anticipated arrives too late it finds us numb, wrung out from waiting, and we feel-nothing at all. The best things arrive on time~Dorothy Gilman ”
I have been graciousness towards you, yet you fail to Reciprocate And be benevolent
To have a false sense of entitlement is destructive and baleful
I have noticed that in every case and showing , kindness and Gratitude has lacked it’s grace towards my person; you continually put me down through neglect
“Thank You goes a long way” whenever favor bestows u with its gift.
I cannot stand ingratitude as it cuts the supply from the well and also the willingness of well wisher.
The idea behind my reaction is based on the matter that you are not thinking about my feelings and acting on them .
It is one thing to provide and another to get appreciated for it.
Announcing ones presence is most unflattering for it is better to be recognized than shouting ones own praise .
The genesis of this situation I must say comes from a lack of understanding and a false sense of entitlement.
Gender is not specific when it comes to showing appreciation and delivering praise for another’s effort and work .
“Appreciation is a wonderful thing It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well~Voltaire“.
We chorus “Hallelujah” to The Lord shouting ” God be Praised!” to He that we do not see , what more about our fellow man right beside us, the person whom physically we can see making effort to provide for us to cater to our needs.
It is hypocrisy to Deny such a person a measure of gratitude, for in the nearest future we might again need such a person.
Woe! to that ungrateful man for in his time of need he would be abandoned to his fate .
I know that every man feels that at sometime in his future he would repay a deed or favor but know this:
“There are fine things which you mean to do some day, under what you think will be more favorable circumstances. But the only time that is surely yours is the present, hence this is the time to speak the word of appreciation and sympathy, to do the generous deed, to forgive the fault of a thoughtless friend, to sacrifice self a little more for others. Today is the day in which to express your noblest qualities of mind and heart, to do at least one worthy thing which you have long postponed, and to use your God-given abilities for the enrichment of someone less fortunate. Today you can make your life – significant and worthwhile. The present is yours to do with as you will~Grenville Kleiser“.